How to use a Vibrator

How to use a vibrator

Using a vibrator is something which seems pretty cut and dry. After all, you insert the vibrator and have an orgasm… don’t you?

Having an orgasm with a vibrator is easy. But what if you could experience an orgasm that was so mind blowing, it literally sweeps you off your feet? When you buy your first vibrator, it is customary to spend a little time browsing through the instructions before getting down and dirty with your new toy. But, do the instructions really tell you how to use a vibrator and get the best results from the product?

Quite often, the answer is no.

Get to know your vibrator

Before we get down to the nitty gritty about the best way to use a vibrator, it’s really important that you take some time to get to know your product first. At Crimson Princess, we ensure that all of our delivery packages are very discreet. Therefore, when your plain package arrives, remove the vibrator and have a good look at the product. Before you start any experimentation, give the vibrator a wash with soap and water to ensure that there is no residual chemicals or bacteria on the surface before use, as this can cause irritation.

If your vibrator is rechargeable, it is important that you charge it fully before you start experimenting with the settings. After all, you want to see the vibrator working to its full potential. If the vibrator is battery operated, make sure that you have the correct batteries and you have removed the small paper disc inside the battery compartment. I always keep a spare set of batteries close to hand as the manufacturers don’t have the longevity as the more expensive types.

When you’re ready, press the buttons and experiment with the different modes and speeds of vibration. Are there any which you think you’d like best?  

Experiment with your vibrator on your own

Vibrators are great fun whether you use them alone or with a partner. However, before you introduce a sex toy into the bedroom, spend some time getting acquainted with the vibrator yourself first. As you navigate your way through the different modes of vibration and intensity, you can really enjoy the experience instead of worrying about pleasing anyone else.

Once you feel more comfortable and you know exactly how the vibrator works. Introduce your new toy to a partner, or treat them to a sexy show.

Treat your erogenous zones to a little vibe action

When using a vibrator, it may be tempting to head straight towards the G Spot or the clitoris. However, gently teasing erogenous zones such as the neck, nipples, inner thighs and labia is a great way to get yourself in the mood and increase the intensity if your orgasm.

How to use a clitoral vibrator

First things first, make sure that you can enjoy some time alone and will not be disturbed. Switch off your phone, lock your front door and completely relax. If it helps to get you in the mood, watch something a little saucy or read an erotic book. For a lot of people, sexual arousal begins in the mind, so take some time to work on your brain as well as your body. 

Rather than diving in on the highest setting, start by teasing your erogenous zones with a gentle setting and working your way slowly to the vulva. By moving the clitoral vibrator around the body, this enables you to get used to the sensations and helps to build anticipation.

As you become more accustomed to the strength of the vibration, gradually increase the intensity and experiment with different pleasure modes if the vibrator is multi-speed. Modes that have an increasing and decreasing vibration, or intermittent buzz are perfect for prolonging orgasm and increasing the intensity of your climax.

How to use a G Spot Vibrator

Those using a G Spot or rabbit vibrator for the first time experience some uncertainly about putting something into their vagina, particularly if you are sexually inexperienced or worry that it might hurt. However, as long as you purchase a high quality sex toy from a reputable retailer, like Crimson Princess… ahem, there is nothing to worry about.

When you remove the vibrator from the packaging, check it very carefully to ensure that the product contains no sharp or rough edges and it smooth to the touch. If you’re a beginner, opting for a slimline vibrator will enable you to insert the vibrator more comfortably, whilst a generous helping of water-based lubricant will also help to make you feel more comfortable.

As before, use the vibrator to stimulate the erogenous zones as this helps the body to relax and helps to get you in the mood. As you become increasingly aroused, your vagina produces a natural lubricant which will also help you to insert the vibrator. You may wish to start with a gentle setting, before moving on to something stronger, but this is completely up to you. If the vibrator has rabbit ears or an arm, place these against the clitoris with the vibrator inside you to experience combined G Spot and clitoral stimulation. Some women prefer to move the vibrator in and out, whilst others prefer to leave the vibrator in one place until they climax, this is completely up to you.

Please note – If purchasing an anal vibrator, always check that the vibrator has a flared safety base to ensure that the product does not travel into the body. If using a vibrator to stimulate the anus, ensure that it is the correct type for anal play. After all, nobody wants to make an embarrassing trip to the hospital.

Seeking advice about your vibrator

If you are buying a vibrator for the first time, or you aren’t sure which lubricants and condoms are compatible with your vibrator, our helpful customer care team are always on hand to answer any questions that you have about your purchase.

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